Moods & Choices

Vibe Commentary-3/19

Greetings all,
The intro is still & will be the Same so I feel repetition isn’t needed.

Today’s Thought: Making Decisions
“Never cut down a tree in the winter. Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come.”- Robert H. Schuller

Author’s Take: Correcting mistakes when things “go Wrong” or passing an opportunity because of a fear of continuing the cycle of errors because we think we can do something better the next time a similar situation arises.

Ending Thought: “If I’m in a bad mood, I will put off making important decisions until my outlook and judgement improve.”

The overall theme here, I believe, is to avoid making decisions that affect your life, at the time; when your attitude is less than Joyful. Great Advice! Whenever you’re angry or upset, disappointed or frustrated, decisions are best left for a better time. We all know those who have made Poor choices during disruptive moods. The results, of course, were less than favorable, without exception. We may all have had similar experiences. It’s a hard lesson to learn and harder still, to employ.
When someone does something we disagree with, that goes against our opinion or belief and we allow ourselves to become angry or upset in some manner; we want to assert our belief as the right one. We feel the need to justify why we became upset and believe they are wrong. We may want revenge or retaliation against those who we feel wronged us. We lash out in anger, choosing to react instead of respond.

There are many Psychological explanations for this behavior. Everything from evolution of early man, in defense of his safety to learned traits of society or reactionary belief systems. Here is where many find the LoA is Not their Mother, to sooth & console them. LoA Draws to it/you the very thoughts you’re thinking. Adding the emotion of Anger or Fear only compounds the Momentum of Creation your thoughts started.

We have evolved past the point of animal-like behavior, no longer Needing to snap back in defence of territory, food or mating rights.

Our thoughts create the emotions we feel when our moods & attitudes. Our feelings dictate our reactions and better choices can be made when we are in a clearer, calmer demeanor. If we have a loss of control, we blame the circumstance at the time for “causing” us to have whatever bad reaction comes.

This is an Attraction based Universe. LoA shows us that no one can Assert their influence upon us without our aligning to Their vibrations! It’s as simple as not thinking we a say in how we feel, when the truth is; we are the only ones that Can determine that. More accurately, we react to situations we encounter without consciously (meaning we don’t realizing we are) thinking of what we will do. It’s a Knee-Jerk response, like an injured or trapped animal. We pride ourselves on having a higher intellect, a superior mind and being more evolved than “lower” forms of life. Even though we claim this, we still React as animals do when confronted with adversity.
We can use our minds to reason (justify) our way through any situation if we only take a few seconds to evaluate the event and to consider the consequences of the action we might take. This takes practice, a willingness to want to change our behavior and a desire to learn new methods of response.

By the Law of Attraction, most situations can be avoided before they occur by maintaining focus away from those types of events. Television shows, the news media, and complaining companions can help influence our “bad” behavior by directing our focus to what we see and hear. The more often we subject ourselves to this kind of stimulation, the more we’re apt to follow the examples of behavior we allow into our focus.
We have the ability to create the safe, happy, calm environment we really want.-JMO
Happy creating!!