Do you ever ask yourself Why we (most people) are generally focused on the Negative aspects of our environment.?? What has conditioned us to see the Negative side of situations of the present; but also of the Past AND the Future.!??
You come into work one day & there’s a Note on your desk, summoning you to the Boss’ office. As you read the note, a wash of emotion comes over(overcomes??) you, butterflies in your stomach, maybe a bit of perspiration on your forehead; from the Anticipation of possible negative outcomes…Why is the 1st thing one thinks of the things we don’t want.??
There are 2 paths of understanding the Why we insist on putting our Focus on the Negative, from My point of view; the 1st is from the Evolutionary struggle for Survival, the other is from the need of one group wanting to control others.
Regardless of your Beliefs of Evolution, I think most can agree that we have evolved from the earliest man, living in caves, migrating with the food, wearing what we killed & ate to living individually with the modern conveniences we’ve created along the way. Those early people, grouped together by Birth/family/tribe. With walls & fire, they learned & taught their young that Danger, Harm, Death was outside the walls or the light of the Homefire. We learned to 1: Trust our leaders/elders/parents, 2: Fear Death, 3: Fear others & the unknown & worst of all was the Habit of expecting the worst outcomes FIRST.!! That meant that we were constantly, not only aware of danger but constantly Anticipating it as well. Yes, we Had to survive & at the time, those were the needed behaviors to continue as a Species but we have conquered most of the Dangerous aspects of daily living. With the exception of a few indigenous, remote tribes of people still living where civilization has not yet reached, most of us live relatively safe lives. We still have the Belief that we must prepare the next generations for the Dangers WE created for them(& us).!! Our Lives have evolved but our beliefs have not kept up.
Remember that a Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced; a thought you Keep thinking. Law of Attraction(LoA) perpetuates the Vibrations/Energies/Thoughts/ Feelings(all the same) by continually adding to the Momentum created by the Attention given to whatever is the topic in That Moment. THAT is your Point of Attraction(PoA) or Attention.
This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thoughts & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. The Law of Attraction (LoA) is: “That which is alike unto itself, is drawn.”, which means that Like Energies, Vibrations, Thoughts(they’re all the Same), come together by the amount of Attention it receives.
Our Habit of looking for danger to avoid, as a “caveman” has Evolved into Looking for Problems to Solve as “Rational” people. By “looking for problems” we create the very problems (things) we don’t want, which we Attract (LoA draws) more of, to us. When we feel Negative emotions that the habit of thinking, beliefs, that that which is Unwanted means something Bad/Harmful/Dangerous, Now Our PoA is on Unwanted with the Emotions of FEAR & Dispair…so we saw(still do), danger around every corner. The media now perpetuates the fear by a 24/7 stream (how many different channels) of NEWS (that isn’t New) over & over & over again & again…ad nauseam.
The need to CONTROL others, I believe began as much else did, from the Habits developed in early social development & became the Accepted behavior. From the earliest tribes/families/clans, parents/ leaders/ elders felt the need to “Protect” the newest members/young/females from harm by Restricting their movement, activities & location. (The abused today know this as Control.) Control meant safety for the tribe, the strongest or best providers became the leaders by admiration & gratitude or from fear. As time passed, tribes grew & the social Hierarchy refined to defined groups of leaders, the privileged & the support of the masses. The most noticeable development of leaders came from the Power given to the spiritual/shamanistic/religious individuals that gave “explanations” for the Unknown & was outgoing, charismatic, convincing with Rituals & trinkets(tools) to “behave in a manner” acceptable to the Spirits; according to (His-Story) the Medicine man/See-er?/oracle/priest…They had a direct connection to the Infinite…& by following their instruction, guarantees of favorable treatment by the Gods {(as they came to be called.) Where the Idea of & the name for the spiritual essence of all that is subject matter for another Blog commentary.} Here again, I feel most can agree that the religious exertions of spiritual groups “converting” the world to Their way of thinking/believing/behaving based on the threat(motivation) of ETERNAL damnation with even worse repercussions for the strongest adversaries of Following prior beliefs & rituals…
How does this relate to the Negative aspects of Modern life.?? The above was a path to the following: The “answer” is the same, your Understanding is only as broad as your Beliefs.
You(we) are an extension of Source (some say god) Energy, the Non-Physical, Vibrational Consciousness of the Universe having(chosen to have) a Physical experience in this Time/Space reality as a Be-ing Human. The “Language” of the Universe is the VIBRATION of Pure LOVE.!! Your “thoughts” are vibrations & thoughts “create” Emotions which we “feel” (as good or bad). Your (soul?)Inner-Being(I-B), the Non-Physical, the extension of Source is the greater part of YOU & has only 1 perspective; that of Pure LOVE-unconditionally. Your Emotions are your Guidance system to Indicate the degree of Your belief in comparison to that of the perspective of SourceEnergy LOVE.!!
All negative feelings/emotions/thoughts come from only one “place”; Having a desire & finding a (physically Mental) reason/belief/excuse for Not getting what is Wanted. If others are, in your Opinion; “Rude” to you, you want others Less Rude(Nicer). The “negative feelings” come from, 1-your Belief about the situation/circumstance based on past experiences & 2-Your I-B’s perspective is NOT your belief. If looking at the topic of the moment feels “bad”, find another thought, take a nap or play to distract your perspective so you can Ask: How would I see this situation with the perspective of Source.?? If you can imagine a perspective of PURE acceptance with No doubts or contradictions, the Negative emotions won’t develop in your experience. If the Negative Situation you’re Observing was acceptable to your Beliefs, you wouldn’t Feel Negative emotions. LoA assures that the longer you Feel Negative, the more negative you will Feel. The longer you hold to your Negative aspect the more Negative aspects will appear TO VALIDATE your experience. That includes Thoughts, Emotions & People.!! There is No “negative” energy. There is NO
Assertion, there is Only Attraction, Attraction, Attraction. Shouting NO at, pushing against anything only tells LoA to bring More. If you can “create” Bad/Negative circumstances, feelings or thoughts; you can create All the Best of what you Want just as easily. Most create their experience by default, out of habit & wonder why “Life is doing this to Me.??!” instead of accepting their own partic ipation& then finding ways to be more Satisfied with the current What-Is, anticipating better to exist & fill-in the desire of the Expectation.!!-JMO
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