What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
The most useful recommendation I recall is to Mind My Own Business. This is, I feel the One perspective that will lead to personal happiness. There are always Choices, the thoughts of which create the Emotions we use to Decide the next move. On the other hand, Giving Advice is wanting another to behave in the manner of the Advisor…
Humanity, for the most part, has evolved an INTENSE need to involve themselves with every aspect of those & that around them. To add insult to injury, societal evolution has developed to the point that any condition serves as an excuse to misunderstand their Emotional response, how they FEEL at the time. In addition, the perceived injury is continually thought of, recounted to others & Kept Active continuing the feelings of pain & confusion. This has turned society into a mass of overly sensitive people, looking to FEEL better by wanting to cause pain to others; retaliating in some way. We can look around now & see the end results today.
So why is this the Best advice to follow.?? Let’s take a walk in the mind for a minute…Imagine that humans developed in a way that each & every individual takes care of only themselves with no need to direct or be responsible for others. They would understand that conflicts are easily resolved when neither side Has to BE Right & both sides receive the result they desire. There is No fear of Lack as there is always an abundance of all that is wanted, therefore no need to compete for Your Share.
We could not possibly reset the World paradigm any quicker that our current one developed. However, we can All, as individuals; MIND OUR OWN BUSINESS.!! We can apply this concept to today’s issues, even the Global ones; and achieve each desired goal; IF only we didn’t have to be right FIRST. In time, we would find a happier, less stressful existence & more Satisfaction in our lives.
This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thoughts & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. The Law of Attraction (LoA) is: “That which is likened unto itself, is drawn.”, which means that Like Energies, Vibrations, Thoughts(they’re all the Same), come together by the amount of Attention it receives.
The beliefs that have developed over the centuries of repetition & practice have led Man to believe (A Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced; a thought you Keep thinking.) that others need to be controlled through violence & domination, the Strong over the Weak & then, (thank You Darwin..) Survival of the Fittest. We observed the co-operative predator animals’ behavior and mimicked as our EARLY Survival demanded. Unfortunately, as the Human mind evolved with Reason & cognitive ability, were still relying on the emotional responses of Fight or Flight, the Instinctual reaction born out of the need to survive & propagate; LoA kept Attracting the vibration of control & thus kept the Condition Active; & man has not(wanted.??) Stopped the momentum of That paradigm to date. Consequently, we have Global conflicts over both sides being right…If We would Mind our Own Business, Create Our Own Reality; stop thinking we KNOW what others want or Need; as individuals, we could live happier & more Satisfied lives which could grow into everybody coming together as a Humanity of Be-ings instead of thinking/believing we can’t Co-Exsit, Only If we wanted & focused on the Be-ing Happpy, not it’s opposite. Then again, even this is not Minding MY business( :[o)-JMO
Happpy Creating!!
