Author: Universal Life Paths

Today’s Vibe Commentary 11-30

Greetings all,
This may be a new point of view to most who read this Blog. This Blog is somewhat different in perspective to which some may be accustomed. I offer a common sense understanding of how I see the Law of Attraction(LoA) as it relates to the everyday things we all experience.!! We all have “issues” that come from our Perspectives & Beliefs; from where we want to feel “relief”. The accepted ways of things having been done are now Habit due to LoA…
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The eternal question has long been; “What’s Next…”, what happens when we die.?? There are as many opinions as there are people & every belief system or Religion has a variation of what is Believed. To answer this question properly I want to set a Baseline of understanding of, what I believe covers the related questions of, “How & Why are we here?” & “What is our ‘Purpose’?”.

From the young age of my early teens, I had an Idea of versions of answers about those very questions before I actually Knew it was The question that I was contemplating. As mentioned in my About Me, I began a study of the Occult or Metaphysics (as it was called then) which led to a different perspective than the one Religion presented. Before knowing anything other than traditional religion I was forced to “participate” in Church going. Even then I questioned the narrative they offered which led to being “Asked” to not return. I continued my quest for answers that made (I thought then…) sense in a Logical way as I saw my world organized in an Orderly & Logical structure. Observing the Environment only reinforced this belief & supported my expectations of the same for the Rest of creation.!!
Over the years, decades my beliefs were suspended as I allowed Life to distract me while I survived Viet Nam & Marriage w/kids…

As my awareness finally became an undeniable desire, I began finding information & guides bringing my consciousness back to the beliefs I carried long ago. It began slowly with a New Age “guru” touting a Mantra style regime of affirmations & adopting an attitude of Universal Love…
This idea resonated with me & I began to Feel a pulling desire to extend that feeling with more information.
I was visiting the YouTube channel for this teaching of Feelings when I saw Related videos. I clicked on several before settling on a woman speaking about Energy, Vibrations & Source Energy…the feeling of connection immediately came over me. I listened intently, saying to myself that THIS was the vocabulary I needed to put what I already believed, into words. It is this belief & words I offer as My perspective to the Answers for the Law of Attraction version of the Why & How of our existence.

As I learned (& learn) more of the Subtleties of LoA I have come to New conclusions based on the logical evolution of what I know & believe.

If I haven’t mentioned it yet or if you’ve not read any of my other commentaries; A Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced, a thought you Keep Thinking.!! Also, to make sure there is no misunderstanding, LoA is NOT a religion, cult or even a Belief System any more than gravity. LoA IS the unequivocal management of Vibrational Energy of & IN the Universe.

Which brings us to the next point of understanding, if not Acceptance.
This is a Vibrational Universe, meaning that EVERYTHING in the Universe Vibrates.!! The very Air we breathe, the Water we drink, everything we observe & call Reality & every Thought we have; vibrates to a “Frequency” or “Rate” of its own. Following this thread, EVERYTHING that IS (seen & unseen) is made-up of the Same “Stuff”; energy. This energy is similar but Unlike what humans think of as Energy; that usually being Electrical, Physical or Hydraulic, but even That energy is made of the Energy of the Universe, each to its own. If that can be accepted as plausible or true; then the rest of this explanation will fall in line with the conclusion you may come to on your own.

With that in mind, let’s consider this from the perspective of a “time-line” of 1 entity…(me, you, anyone…) & review the answers along the way.

Science has long explored the Cosmos, questioning the source of creation & evolution, as neither can be exclusive or denied. Recent analisis has led to the conclusion that the overriding permeation of the Void of the Universe & Space was that there is a Consciousness present that seemed to respond to Observation AND directed vibrational energy, Thoughts.!! This “consciousness” was detected & recognized as “VIBRATIONS”.!! At the same instant, Law of Attraction was born to direct the vibrational energy to the attraction of its own. The LoA is: That which is alike unto itself, is drawn”. Like attracts Like…

My perspective of this revelation is that the Universe was created By Design, on Purpose.!! The “Why” of it all may forever be a Mystery that may Not be obvious even after (Physical) death. Regardless of the reason, it’s irrelevant as all things Past.
That brings up another crucial concept: Everything that Is, Was or Will Be was or is a Thought FIRST.!! Every thought ever thought, still exists…
If any part of “…created in our Own image…” is true, then by Logical extrapolation; everything that came BEFORE MAN was a Thought before it Be-came “Physical”. The physicality of Matter requires the Space around it to Expand, much like a Boat displaces the water it Floats on. It is still expanding. Science can’t explain why. I think it’s due to the “Creation” of more matter…
I also believe that the Consciousness found by researchers is the Vibration of LOVE & that Nothing is created from anything other than Love, even some of the worst things we know, & creating the Physical “Feels” good, like LOVE. From the Non-Physical perspective, LOVE has a different sentiment than that perceived by Humans.

Expansion of the cosmos must continue because of LoA in association with Gravity/Physics without Expansion there would be Contraction.!! A return to the Folding In of Space itself. The Universe too, has a Life… As time passed & the creating of the Same things(planets, stars & galaxies) despite the many variations & forms, a desire to Create faster with a greater sensation of LOVE was growing until the “Idea” to create something physical, that also Creates, adding to the Expansion & the Feeling of LOVE. Since Source IS the Vibrational Consciousness of the Universe, Thought, Vibration & LoA was all the same & thereby Instantaneous. Life Be-gan as a (possibly) One Cell organism & like the earliest planets & galaxies were crude variations of what is currently observable. Life evolved from what unusual beginnings we can only imagine that may have developed on distant planetary systems until the proper combination of thoughts were viable to hold the same Universal consciousness with the desire to create.
From the Amoeba to the Current Human model, desire was & IS the Driving force of Life.!! Undeniable preferences between Unwanted & Wanted creates Desire. It is unavoidable.

I believe the preceding explanation (rant) covers 2 of the Questions; 1) Where we came from, & Why..but to be clear, let’s review.

The Universe vibrates with the “Feeling” of LOVE & expands with the addition of Matter into the “void”. Life requires creating & creating matter requires the accommodation of Space, expanding the Universe, sustaining Life.!!

Humanity, Living Be-ings; plant, animal, fish & fowl; what is considered Life as we know it has long been made separate from one another for the purpose of controlling conditions. That concept is covered more in other commentaries on my Blog.

Now we have explored a concept of Origin & Purpose, we come to What’s Next…

If you followed closely in the earlier description of the start of it all, you may have picked up on the idea that (what I call) Source(Energy) is what some call god. That carries with it definite perceptions from a Religious perspective. Also, as religion has mentioned in an Aside; all Living Be-ings are an EXTENSION of that Energy (Source or god). Meaning that the energy that created the Universe resides within our vibrational, Physical Human form as well as in that of other life forms. We experience this to the degree of Physical/Mental cognitive reasoning ability. Each form experiences “Life” from their own perspective as they Know they create their Reality by their Desires…Grass wants sunlight, water, air & “food”. Grass understands it’s Grass & its function is to Be grass, food for animals, anchors for earth & an oxygen source for the planet. Humans are the only Life forms that question their existence.
The Universal consciousness shares Life. Life shares the Universal Consciousness with all the Desire for more & the ability to create its needs. This is LIFE whether here on This planet or any possible others.
So, What’s Next..?? We begin/began as Non-Physical energy from Source Consciousness, extended into Physical forms capable of maintaining consciousness also. Source Energy was the Be-ginning & as such, Eternal. There was No matter yet created, to grow or reduce & so only the WILL Existed…Without End-Eternal. Therefore, there is No End to the amount of Energy available to Create more, be that what you desire.
However, all Physical deteriorates and returns to the physical Energy of matter. Our Non-Physical conscience, being the Energy of Source is eternal & returns to the Void of the Universe as a Shared Collective of Experiences from the Physical.

Religions around the World proclaim some form of Heaven where, by your good deeds will be the reward of Judgement. Repetition & LoA have propagated the belief (also discussed in other commentaries) as the Ultimate goal for man. Yet even those with the Strongest of Beliefs & Faith in their religious teachings, will cling to life through Pain & suffering to the last breath.
As I have watched the Suffering, dying; Physically Unable to sustain life, even to beg for release; at the moment the realization that the final breaths are but few left, the Body struggles to live, over-ridding the mind’s Belief of a better existence. I asked Why?

This is my perspective of what I have come to understand from not only a variety of readings, lectures & the perspectives of others; but through a series of questions, musings & a desire for the answer, I believe LoA aided in providing the answer I was looking for. I share this idea here. If you agree or not, it may cause a ripple in the vibrational attitude of the perceiver.

Simply, if we chose to experience the Physical “Life” & came from a Non-Physical consciousness in a Near empty “void of Space”, as our Physical forms stop functioning, the Non-Physical extension, snaps back to the main Source of the “US”. I’ve had this idea of events from my earliest studies of non-traditional beliefs. But the part that was still unavailable to me was Why the tenacious hold on Life.
The best way I can explain is; as Non-physical Source (god or not) having once experienced the Physical World & the Range of emotions, sensations & varieties, the never ending emptiness of Space with the only sensation is unconditional LOVE would be something like being taken from society & put in Solitary confinement, until there is a Physical “conduit” through which to Return to Life…Could explain the population explosion. LoA works for everyone, the same, all the time.!!

If we live, we die; physically.!! Our Spirit, Soul, Inner-Being, Higher Self…is ForEver, Eternal, Never Ending. We have an inexhaustible supply of…everything…Life experiences, creation building energy & Choices for each. Enjoy this life, feel secure there is no ending, to you, your ideas or desires. Everything is temporary except Source.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Today’s Vibe Commentary 11-6

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These “quotes” are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that meant something different then but yet Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO
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Today’s Thought: “More persons, on the whole, are Humbugged by believing in nothing than by believing in too much.”-P.T Barnum

Author’s Take: The question of whether or not Believing in some-one or thing, risking the possibilities of disappointment or Not believing & “never” being disappointed…
Further stating that cynics & pessimists are usually Not Happy due to the self-fulling expectations of disappointment that happen.
To risk believing creates an opportunity to find happiness.

Ending Thought: “I am a risk-taker. I will let myself believe.”
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Mr. Barnum was a great showman, entertainer & Big-top announcer. I’m not sure that qualifies him as a Philosopher.( “A fool is born every minute.”[another quote])
That said, most believe in old “tried-n-true” ideals or in most cases, someone else’s interpretation…to the point of self detriment.

To question if Believing is better than not believing could elicit some of the “disappointment” most expect. Lumping those with a less than sunny disposition are Not Happy exhibits the Belief of the Expectation of them being unhappy.

I fail to see the relation between risk taking & allowing Belief.
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BELIEF/BELIEVING: “accept (something) as true; feel sure of the truth of.”-Google Dictionary
If asked, many people would agree that people believe in things “accepted as true”-TO THEM.!!
A belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced; it’s a thought you Keep thinking.
We ALL have “beliefs” about Everything.!! The pen, or flash-drive in your hand, the lunch earlier or dinner later; are thought about, either consciously or (UN)consciously; & these Thoughts/vibrations create Emotions which, through Societal Training; we evaluate (consider “it’s” value to us) as Good or Bad. If it’s Good, we appreciate receiving it & usually justify it’s coming by some virtue attributed to their belief system. If it’s Bad, most Blame some external source or entity for “Keeping it From” us.

If this sounds familiar, it could be because you’re still holding on to beliefs picked up along your Life Paths that color your view of the experience you’re having. If you’ve read this & my other commentaries, you’re looking for new answers. They will find you.

The expectations folk have had, lead to disappointment because of the Belief held about that Topic at the Moment. In the Point of Attraction perspective of LoA, expectation is more “rightly” seen as Anticipation of Receiving.!! Society’s common understanding of anticipation is that it’s more likely if it’s a Negative result & if it’s Good, then you got Lucky.!! Or told you are Undeserving which will result in negative consequences. The list goes on & on & on &…

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thoughts & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. The Law of Attraction (LoA) is: “That which is alike unto itself, is drawn.”, which means that Like Energies, Vibrations, Thoughts(they’re all the Same), come together by the amount of Attention it receives.

The above description is NOT a belief anymore than is Gravity. Whether or not you believe in Gravity, you won’t FALL UP.!! Whether or not you Believe in LoA, it still affects each & every one of us in the same way, with the same effects.

LoA does not depend on Beliefs, Affirmations or Sacrifice. The simple “Act” of wanting IS asking & we Always want. Despite admonishments about wanting, even those that Tell us Not to Want, WANT.!! If nothing else, they want others to behave in a manner They approve of. I feel that to be a Contradiction & controlling. LoA is not affected by Words, only the Essence of the Feeling/Emotion/Vibration of the focus In the Moment.!!

There are 3 steps to LoA & how we interact with the energies of the Universe.
1: We Ask- we observe something we Don’t like, we Ask for what we Do want.
2: The Universe & Source Energy (LoA) gather the Like Energies(components) of the Essence of the Thought Request & it Instantly Be-comes, vibrationally.
3: WE align with the Feeling of the Desire to Allow the manifestation…
That’s the Reader’s Digest version. There are details & fine tuning that give more substance to the process but that is enough to understand the General adaptation of its application to Deliberate Creating.

Since Believing is today’s topic, let’s give some attention to what it Really does to the State of Mind of the general populace when IT comes into conversation.
As I said in the beginning, we all have beliefs about Everything, really Everything. These are the result of centuries of the Habit of thought developed in the earliest founding of society.
To understand beliefs, humans seem to think understanding justifies their opinion; acceptance of the basis of the belief is needed. That IS the beginning of Accepting or Allowing all you have become, from your desires. Research or reviewing & even consulting “trusted authorities” affects how the LoA reacts to the Ask, because of the belief held by Both.

There is no Assertion or Exclusion only Attraction. Saying YES to something Attracts more of the same energy. Saying NO to Something Attracts more of the Same energy.
If the belief is “…that always happens…”, it will (al)mostly happen in similar circumstances. Why.?? What does the LoA have to do with it.??

Every thought is a Vibration FIRST but remains a vibration even as it is Be-coming. Each thought/vibration/energy(it’s all the same) “stimulates” a Like energy/vibration to “gravitate” or Attract to it. In this Attraction, Vibrational based Universe each thought is steeped in the Beliefs of the thinker…”It’s true so I believe it.” but if it is examined from the perspective of LoA, it’s actually True BECAUSE you Believe it. Beliefs are the basis of every decision made. Most don’t think about their beliefs or how it affects daily life, with each decision but if the mind can slow the thought process enough to examine the Thought/Belief behind the decision, it will prove to be Belief based.

Once one accepts that,
1: this IS a vibrational Universe, meaning Everything Vibrates;
2: We are vibrational Be-ings,
3: WE create our Own reality &
4: It’s All Attraction; then understanding of our Role in the experience we attract becomes evident. Believe it or not..your Opinion(also a belief) is all you & your beliefs direct the Desires you imagine having. Believing you Deserve them or Not is the choice of what your Beliefs allow you to Accept.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Today’s Vibe: 10-18

This may be a new point of view to most who read this Blog. This Blog is somewhat different in perspective to that which some may be accustomed. I offer a common sense understanding of how I see the Law of Attraction(LoA) as it relates to the everyday things we all experience.!! We all have “issues” that come from our Perspectives & Beliefs; from where we want to feel “relief”. The accepted ways of how things have been done are now Habit due to LoA…
My opinions are of how LoA would offer a Path of Lesser resistance to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO
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Today’s Thought: “The way a team plays as a whole determines its success. You may have the greatest bunch of individual stars in the world, but if they don’t play together, the club won’t be worth a dime.”- Babe Ruth

Author’s Take: The skills of the individual are & may be inspiring but those achievements were through the collaboration of others. Support of colleagues, friends & family is the foundation of a person’s success.
The challenge is in finding a place among a group where one’s talents work well. Personal success is good but being a part of a team’s success is ‘especially wonderful’.”

Ending Thought: “I know how much I depend on the efforts and talents of those I work and play with.”
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Team play (or work, would feel better if it were ‘Played”) does not depend on the Extraordinary talents of the individual, unless fortunate enough for One to join the team; but of the Coordinated Efforts of the group. It becomes a Team mentality towards a common goal; winning…the game.!!

Hard enough as it is to acquire those with natural abilities to compete as individuals but then asking them to hide their talent among a group of less talented, for the benefit of the TEAM (& whatever the Team represents) can encourage diminishing one’s self image.. The superior player can Inspire or Overshadow the rest.

Dependance on the efforts of others gives me the desire to join in…
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If I haven’t mentioned it before; I’m not a Sports fan/follower/player (with a few exceptions. After all, I do what is Fun.!!) That said, teams themselves have never been my “Cup of Tea”(again with an exception). The life that led me to my perspective (If you read my About Me page) didn’t allow for any long term connections that a cohesive team needs to Feel comfortable with one another. That may make this commentary a bit Biased…maybe. However, the LoA has no regard for the Efforts of teams or individuals unless the action is Inspired from (a Source of ) LOVE. To some degree, it is only LOVE that allows forward expansion of the Universe. Ok, yeah, that’s a little deep but it is True. Those that play team sports do so, mostly out of a Love for the Game, the physical activity, being outdoors, the attention of the crowd & individuals & of course; the personal rewards of Individual achievement. All the above…When the Team feels this way, they Win (or come real close). If a few members are having issues off the field & their focus is not on the game as much, the superior efforts of the Star may not save the team or the game. Humans have come to believe that others are more important than oneself…When one member of the team is Not at their highest vibration (or not feeling their best) when they go out to Play, the others, team oriented; adjust their feelings/vibrations/thoughts/Energy to that of the lower energy. When a Pro plays with an Amateur, the amateur’s skill level doesn’t improve immediately. The Pro player has to lower his ability just to maintain play…(tennis comes to mind).

This is a Co-Creative Universe where, regardless of what we as individuals believe, like or do; we do it WITH everyone else on the planet. We are a Planetary Human TEAM.!!
As above (so below), if the belief among people is to be a “Part of” something beyond themselves, then the World Playing Field is the ONLY team to play on.
A Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced; a thought you Keep thinking.!!

Law of Attraction responds to the Active or Activated vibrations/thoughts of each one of us & gathers cooperative energies together. A team with its many components from the Owner, managers & players to the towel boy & the fans in the area (or watching from some media). As those components work together & learn to coordinate their energies, they become more successful. When there’s discord among the members, they experience less success. As their cooperative energies “rub” against one another instead of blending to be One..the Frustration, doubt & anxiety start to creep into their thinking. It comes out sometimes, even from the Coach when he tells them How far behind they are, points out the mistakes that lost points or claims diminishment over the loss of a Favorite player. LoA doesn’t pick sides, it only responds to the Active vibrations based on the amount of attention that each thought/vibration receives.

If team members feel slighted or injustice about a more talented player & their thoughts may turn to Negative visions of the individual “at fault”. The conversations will be of the unfairness of it all, the struggle & sacrifice & hard work it took to get this far…Adding to the Momentum of the thread of thought until it becomes a rope…then the team suffers because one(? Or more) individual was unhappy. That player’s performance gets worse, maybe enough to get traded…Again, LoA mixes the cooperative components together so everyone gets what they asked for(thought mostly about) whether they want it or not.

The team adage is: “There is no I in Team.” I have long disagreed because the Team is made up Of Is (Individuals) to whom LoA is responding, reacting, attracting & gathering the Like vibrations of each one of OUR thoughts. Individually & Co-Creatively.!! Depending on others to feel, do or have better put one at odds with the (some say soul) Inner-Being(I-B) which results in Negative emotions & feelings when Dependence is thought about. Some will say they don’t feel that way and that without others, they would be less in some way. May be that without a Team that supports them, they would not “effort” toward “team activities” & therefore would not receive as much (wanted) attention. This is from a Belief they acquired along their physical trail…Here again, LoA is responding to the Dominant Thoughts of the person’s Pattern of thinking AND Point of Attraction.

Whether it’s a Team Sport activity, a small non-competitive group or all on one’s own; LoA will combine the energies that match one’s Point of Attraction (what they’re thinking about). If an individual WANTS to be a Shining Star on a Team or as an Independent participant, they must 1st be in Tune to the energies of their desire from the Perspective of Source & I-B; Pure LOVE.!! Those less Tuned In (like being slightly off the radio station) they come to believe they Are dependant on the Star for the Team to Shine.!!-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Universal Life Paths

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These quotes are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form the Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that meant something different then but yet Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO

Today’s Perspective: 9-16
Love & Work

Today’s Thought: “Love & work are the cornerstones of our Humanness.”- Sigmund Freud

Author’s Take: People need another to Love & any activity to engage in. We can Love anything, not always in a romantic way. Our Work can be any action, not just a career. Loving “makes us Better” people & working “makes” us feel needed…complete. This is what it is to be Human.

Ending Thought: “If I don’t have love in my life, Indeed to make room for it. If I don’t have work, I’ll need to find it. I understand that these 2 things are essential to my happiness.”
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Sigmund Freud, renowned Psychologist, had to have this outlook because of the Times in which he lived. Society was firmly established in the Industrial Age where great strides were made in Manufacturing & Commerce. The world was BUILT by the Work of man with the Love of seeing the fruition of Labor. Working to support those loved…the American Dream.!! The belief was that this process was the foundation of being human.

Here the author reflects the General thought of Society on these 2 subjects. People need another person or some Activity to create the FEELING of Satisfaction with one’s self. Conditions control the level of happiness in one’s experience to complete them as Humans.

Not having these 2 things means I have to find a way to include them in my life in order to be happy.
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My study of Psychology included Freud (& Jung) & at the time, it made sense. This perspective is a reflection of Freud’s theory that the Self the Ego controlled one’s actions & desires based on the Learned behaviors of the Parents. Following the Example of the parents, Grand-Parents, their parents…all the way back to the first ancestor that killed a bear for Food, Cover & Cave; efforting was the way to accomplish the Goal. Taking care of the family tribe, providing food & shelter; was the early understanding of Love & Loss. Originally, love was (much ass is Now) less a feeling of Want/Desire(I’ll explain the expectation…) than a feeling of Loss or Fear OF Losing, members of the unit. Early man had few others to relate or interact with, so Losing one meant more work for the others, less protection for all & a loss of the blood-line. Here Man learned to be the Hunter, Strong Protector & woman learned to be the Caregiver, Mother & Maid. Since we Be-came(are) Emotional Be-ings, this fear evolved from what we remember from our experience of the Non-Physical vibration of LOVE; into what we now call Love.

Needing work to “make” us human is just silly. We are Human the second we’re born into this Time/Space reality, with all the Knowing of Source. We are then indiscriminately Taught how this Are now, how they Got that way & why they should Stay that way; in order to Get Along in the world.
As humans, as living Be-ings; we DO crave Physical activity since we Are Physical in nature But our True Nature is to Want & Be Happy.!! Remember, the only reason anyone Wants anything, is because they Believe they will feel better(in some way) in the Having of IT.!! Our bodies FEEL better when we’re Strong, Healthy, & Engaged. We all have images of our best physical concept of ourselves. Calling Need is like calling a Bed Needed when one can sleep on the ground.
Work &/Or Love, many feel very strongly about them, pro or con; others see it as the choices they are. If we Want to experience either,searching them out like Prey to drag back to the cave, will only serve to keep it afar Unless the LOVE of Source is the Essence of the Thought/Vibration of the desire.

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thoughts & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. The Law of Attraction (LoA) is: “That which is alike unto itself, is drawn.”, which means that Like Energies, Vibrations, Thoughts(they’re all the Same), come together by the amount of Attention it receives.
The “author” did make 1 statement that I wholly agree with; “When we love, we are our best selves.” because we are Loving Be-ings 1ST.!! The larger part of our Be-ING is still Non-Physical & holds the perspective of Source in all the Physical “senses” observe. We find “Love” or a “work” we Love because of the Love we Know & Project toward that which is Wanted.
If it’s a Mate, we in-vision them, in detail usually. We FEEL the connection, the warmth & even the physical sensations. Doing this (is Asking) activates That vibration & LoA draws more Like energies/vibrations/Thoughts (all the same) to IT. It literally Be-Comes(vibrationally) & waits in “holding” before it can be Real-Ized; until the same Like energies emanate from …you.!! The same applies to Work. In both cases, we often find ones we “Settle” for or tolerate while “we look for better” or worse “The One”.

Whether it’s Love or Work, if one is Satisfied with the current What-Is (reality) but Wanting more/better/happier/funner with the knowing it will find you to complete the Feeling & Image held of already Having IT.!! You/we (chose to) came into this reality understanding LoA, holding the perspective of the Unconditional LOVE of Source & that adjustments would be needed to “fit in” but that Free Will meant the ability to Choose WANTED.!! That can be anything imaginable, including not working of Loving another as long as one is Happy or Satisfied with their Experience here & Now. If one is Not, they WILL find a way to change it, they will Desire a Change.!! True love meaning of Life & Purpose comes when one’s Love of Self is the most important aspect of life. Once one LOVES themselves as is the LOVE of Source, all that they give attention to Be-Comes their desire.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Today’s Vibe 7/27

Greetings All,

My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These “quotes” are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that meant something different then but yet Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m available for personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO
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Today’s Thought: “Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.”- Arthur Shopenhauer

Author’s Take: Observing our current “reality”, most think it represents the view of the World. Our friends & family reinforce the belief of the Universality of the Sameness of beliefs by having similar opinions & outlooks.
Looking for variety in others teaches us that there are different perspectives & how limited ours is.

Ending Thought: “I have firmly held beliefs-and need to recognize that others may hold different beliefs just as firmly.”
————————————————————-Living the Human condition, we limit our “Field of Vision” to what is manageable within the scope of what we think we are capable of controlling. Most consider that their limits are the limits of others.

Observation of the current What-Is reinforces the beliefs of the experienced condition. We attract those closest to us that have similar ideas & opinions, thus affirming our beliefs but it teaches us that it Limits us somehow.

Everyone believes Something, even if it’s believing in Nothing…it’s still a belief. Each believes their belief is True. it is; from them but doesn’t make it true for anyone else. The beliefs of others are just as strongly believed & defended.
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A Belief is a Habit of Thought that is continually Reinforced. A thought you Keep thinking.!!
What we believe colors & sometimes, distorts our perspectives, opinions, Likes & Wants.!!
Like any habit, beliefs should be a Benefit or changed to one of assistance.

So what Is a Belief.?? The dictionary defines it: confidence in the Truth or existence of something not immediately susceptible to rigorous proof.-2-confidence, Faith.(This is usually thought of in the Religious creeds)..

As a thought, it is a Vibration, kept Active by repetition & attention. LoA collects ALL the Like energies/vibrations/thoughts ever thought about it & adds to the Momentum of the manifestations of the Belief(and each of its many layers), creating the Physical evidence of the belief/believer. It’s true because it’s Believed it is.!1

If one believes it’s hard to get a Best Seller Book published, despite the amount of Talent & creativity of the writer; a completed manuscript may never be mailed or submitted because the belief justifies Avoiding the Inevitable pain of Rejection one KNOWS is coming.!! If ever the courage is found or it’s done for them & it’s sent in, one believing it won’t be Published may not keep it from Be-coming(coming to Be-??) right away but only to the degree of What others involved Want for the book, their beliefs can influence the momentum of creation . It’s all a Co-Creative experience. The writer’s belief or amount of belief in this process can affect the desired outcome. We get what we think most Dominantly about…

Believing is the Point of Attraction in your current What-Is(reality), the Focus of your Attention, the Activated Vibration of your Opinion, what LoA responds to by drawing more Like energies to IT.!! If your focus is on a topic you Disapprove of, your Belief colors your perspective. The thought of Not Wanted (your disapproval) created a desire for an aspect of a Wanted situation. This thought is the result of the negative feeling produced by observing the (disapprove of) Unwanted AND your Inner-Being(I-B) having a Different perspective than your Physical, Knee-jerk response. As long as you hold that belief, you will feel the Same negative Emotion, perhaps a bit stronger; each time you observe the same Unwanted…
Now if the object of disapproval is something desired for its potential effect in your experience, your belief may “require” a sacrifice of something also desired, in order to “Justify” getting something someone else said was not allowed or deserved.!!

Most of the world has a Believed point of Attraction(view) that Limits their experience to what others Want for them that only serves to keep leaders & led separate. (I believe)We all came from the same source, most religions say this in one form or another but then it’s distorted into a Separation of self for the sake of the belief System.!!

It’s a good thing to have Beliefs as long as they help you to feel happy in all circumstances. If a belief causes distress, anguish or “hurt feelings” when another disagrees with yours, ask your I-B if your perspective is one of LOVE or defensiveness.!!

Whether you believe as another or not, you are your Only influence. You Choose What to believe, How to believe & whether or not it still holds true for You.!!-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Vibe Commentary 1/30

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These “quotes” are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that meant something different then but yet Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO

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Today’s Thought: Good Deeds.
“Humankind’s ladder to God is a ladder of deeds.”- Sholem Asch

The Author’s Take: The main theme here seems to be that of the Golden Rule of days gone by. The opinion stated is that Faith & morality is only philosophical, mere talk; lip service to belief and that Only our Deeds or actions matter. All religions claim some form of the rule but it is seldom applied in today’s society.

Ending Thought: “What one thing can I do today that will directly reflect my beliefs?”
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To see this through Source Energy, Today’s Thought quote is steeped in the age-old Habits of thinking that our actions produce the end results of our life or that they have any bearing on what happens, to the extension of Source that we are; once we transition Back to Non-Physical. .
Then the author claims to think Faith & Belief are subjects of discussion and that deeds are the path stones to become worthy of…whatever faith or belief system you follow that has a spiritual End Goal.

Actions performed for the sake of “Exhibiting” what you Believe add to the Lack mentality that fosters the belief that actions will change the reality of the current What-Is.
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In the age-old beliefs of Dogmatic religious teachings; the “Acts” of man allow or disallow access to the creating source of Everything…As though what is Taught to be “our creator” is separate & independent of the Physical realm.

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality by the Thought & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. Science has shown that the overriding Constant of the Universe is a Vibration of Consciousness energy from which EVERYTHING is made, animate AND Inanimate.!!

We are (each) an Extension of Source (some say god). That is a direct connection to the Energy that creates worlds. This “extension” or Inner-Being(I-B)/Soul/Spirit is a Non-Physical energy, Physically Focused into this Time/Space reality as a Be-ing Human (this time). All living Be-ings are part of each other AND connected to Source.!!

Law of Attraction keeps your Belief “true” because you believe it. A “Belief” is a Habit of Thought that is continually Reinforced. A thought you keep thinking.!!
As you keep thinking Your “belief”, you keep the vibration of it Active. LoA keeps bringing together more of the Same/Like energies/vibrations of what your beliefs are. The constant attention & emotion directed to that thought belief is enough creative momentum that it becomes a Physical “manifestation”. Observing the What-Is of your belief you say; “See, I told you …”, Believing because there’s Physical Evidence that it’s True. Most, stuck in this Cycle of Misunderstanding, not centered with the acceptance of their connection to Source can easily be confused since there is only One voice offering answers you didn’t ask a question of.

We chose to have this Physical Experience in this time/space reality, knowing that Life was meant to be Fun, to Create, rejoice in the experiences of those others around us & that Attraction is how everything comes to everyone.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

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Vibe Commentary-3/04

Greetings all,
This may be a new point of view to most who may read this Blog. This Blog may be completely different in perspective, to others. I’m not “railing against the wind” but instead I am offering a common sense understanding of how the Law of Attraction relates to the everyday things we all do. We all have “issues” that come from our Perspectives & Beliefs; from which we want to feel “relief”.
If you have read and are following this thread of Vibrational Offerings; you’ll notice that I skip days. This is because I felt the “Daily Quotes” didn’t offer a point of view that inspired sufficient contrast on which to comment. —————————-0——————————–

Today’s Thought: Having Faith
“Not truth, but faith it is that keeps the world alive.”- Edna St. Viincent Millay

Author’s Take: Faith is a glue that connects our life to those things we hold most dear. Mostly it is an intangible feeling or expectation of the Reaping for which we Sowed. The idea is that we get to choose how others treat us, in faith or with faith. We are tested as to the strength of our resolve in the Belief of our Faith.

Ending Thought: I need to value truth, but I realize that not everything important can be measured against truth.
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Faith & Truth are 2 very Different concepts which have 2 different vibrations. Neither are Tangible or Verifiable. Each individual has their own perspective of what they mean & although similar, each is unique.

The word “Faith”, like “god”, evokes ancient memories of Religious dogma & Routine. This says that we have control over another’s behavior to act in a way that makes US feel better. This is some sort of Test of how well we believe what & how someone else says we should,as though someone is Keeping Score.

Needing Truth is subjective to the person & what they think “Truth” is to them. The idea that one more thing has to “Measured” against its value, is the Human tendency to ‘Weigh the Pros & Cons”(which usually create conflict).
—————————–0——————————— We have no control or say how another will act. Most people have trouble controlling their own actions & words. That alone takes a lot of effort and time for most to master. Wishing, hoping and praying all involve some level of faith. This is generally thought of from a Religious viewpoint. We have to have Faith to believe in some(one)thing we can’t see or have any empirical evidence of existing; other than in Faith.
What is Faith? It is defined as: “having complete trust or confidence in… something” (anything?) or in a religious sense: “Strong belief in God or in the doctrines of a religion; based on spiritual apprehension rather than Proof.” That only gives us a clinical, logical formalized percepcion but no clear meaning.
Given a little thought, I feel we would all agree that a Belief is just a thought that one constantly thinks and holds as truth.

In the spirit of the LoA, that IS the meaning of a Belief. So proof is not necessary for Faith to exist as it is a construct of the mind; a thought that is held to be true. I will admit that having faith or a belief in an Idea that serves to lift one up, is vital to the sanity we work to maintain in this world of chaos which we’ve created.
The crucial question here, to me would be; Where did this Faith/Belief come from & did we come to the conclusion of the belief on our own OR are we following the ideas of someone else’s perceptions and interpretations???

As the Law of Attraction puts forth(my belief), the thought you spend the most amount of time thinking about is the vibration you offer to the Universe, and because of your (extra) attention to that thought, LoA will bring more of the same into your Physical experience. If your faith/belief is in the God of organized religions AND the experience of your faith makes you feel Good; then that is what’s best for You (as an individual) and best for your Path in life. The feeling of wellness religious faith allows the believer to experience is in agreement with the Inner-Being’s opinion of the thoughts involved in this practice. If, during your expansion and growth of knowledge, you feel your faith being “Tested” and the feeling of gladness is not part of the experience; then your Spirit is not in agreement with the thoughts brought forth by the belief of “Being Tested”.

Who or what is Testing our belief? Can anyone, other than ourselves; ever know where our level of our faith is or in what we believe? If your answer is; god knows, then that’s a whole other story (and commentary, see my Blog).
Going back to the LoA; we are all (every living thing)created from Source Energy/(whichever..)God. As such, we are Extensions of that creating energy. Therefore, we all have access to the same energy. In other words, if We know, god knows, the reverse is also true. How does that come into play with being tested then? Are we testing and why do we need to test ourselves??
In the physical world, science uses tests to prove the sustainability of the test subject. If we feel we are being or need to be tested, it makes sense that We have a question regarding our faith. Using our Emotional Guidance System, if we have feelings that make us uncomfortable, we are not in agreement or alignment with our Spirit’s viewpoint on the same thought of the topic at hand.

In short, faith is good, as long as it provides a feeling of happiness or joy. The comfort of our thought habit should come from within, in agreement with Source and not because we are completing a task set before us by somebody else. There is good information in the most simple examples of film, literature, connection and daily experiences that can strengthen our Faith. It is YOUR interpretation of that information and how that makes you Feel that makes it of value to you & your belief and faith in whatever idea you follow.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Vibe Commentary: 7-11

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These “quotes” are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that had different meanings then but Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO ————————————————————–

Today’s Thought: “There is always room at the top.”- Daniel Webster

Author’s Take: Life is not a Zero-Sum game where there has to a loser for there to be a Winner. Others need not be pushed aside for there to be a Winner. Success is better when shared with others. Sharing can enhance the pleasure of success.

Ending Thought: “I want to succeed-and I want to include others with me as I do.” ————————————————————-

Todays thought is not on my List of favorites but it is one I agree with & one that the LoA can respond to with favorable results. However, the idea or concept that there is a “TOP” comes from a perspective of a Limited Resources mindset. There’s room because so few “Deserve (?)” to get or be there. This is a Target Goal for most of Western society as we all want to Succeed, to reach the top of our field or expertise.

We are taught from the earliest ages to Win, be or Do the best & be 1st in all we endeavor . Everyone loves the winner but 2nd place is not celebrated near as much & 3rd and beyond go all but un-noticed. Even in team sports when the Team wins, there is usually one (MVP) that is lifted (literally) above the others. The team individuals “celebrate” the Win to the degree of their contribution to the game. This may not be noticed as much in Pro Ball sports as they are getting paid large salaries with Larger bonuses for the wins. Their elation is as much about the game win as Life’s win(success).

The rest of us are not Professional Athletes but the working class backbone of American industry. Most everyone has a dream of “Striking it Rich” someday as we see a Rolls Royce drive by or watch the “Boss” leave work early for a Long weekend…

The “societal” standard is to look upon the success of others with disdain and Envy. The 1st thoughts many have is that the money was ill-gotten. They had Advantages or were Born into It are judgements we learn as we grow & experience life. These “lessons” teach us to think that there are Limited Abundance. If others “get too much” many think there’s not enough to go around & we become bitter at those who found prosperity & success. It’s not noticeable at first but grows as Life “proves” our belief of the struggle for prosperity. LoA can not but continue to make it so.

When we observe others thriving, expanding & enJoying life’s experience, regardless of our 1st thoughts; if we Rejoice for & with them, their successes with True appreciation it activates the vibration of prosperity in Us. If we maintain the feeling of our own Joy & Success, LoA starts the Momentum of energy that is that success for You.!!

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thought & Emotional vibrations offered. Attention to any one thought/vibration (as they are the same thing) with a strong emotion(perspective/opinion) about the topic at hand & the feeling of Worthiness causes LoA gathers the co-operating components of the same energy or vibration, whether Wanted or Unwanted; the response is the same.

Celebrating success with others can be fun(Until the champagne runs out) but the energy of success can’t be shared except by inspired example. Wanting to Share your success can be view as Ostentatious & demeaning by those not partaking of the spoils of success.

The “Room at the Top” is another of Mankind’ structural limiting beliefs designed to keep the classes “against” one another, maintaining the vibration of lack & struggle. Being concerned of the status or opinion of others doesn’t allow us the freedom of our own (attracted)prosperity & happiness. Start by celebrating the every(NOW)day victories; every breath, every beat of your heart, the roof over you, the food in the ‘Fridge…When observation of the success of others brings you tears of Joy for their Expansion, yours will be on the heels of your Allowance of the elation of Life Now.!!-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Today’s Vibe: 6/15-2

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. Today’s content is a Self-Imposed commentary in line with the Concept of the Law of Attraction. In past commentaries I took quotes from a book of daily Inspirational ideas of figures from the past.

My opinions & perspectives are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to Personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO

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With Law of Attraction, a human can create any reality they want. We all came here for this reason. We knew nothing could come into our experience unbidden. We would create everything that happens in our experience.

This includes every relationship. A “relationship” is an Understanding of How we Relate to other energies. They can be Animate or Inanimate energy, as Everything is Everything (Plato); meaning that it is all made of the same source of energy.- Relationships exist as reflections of our internal realities. They show us our beliefs so we can know what we are thinking on a consistent basis, and in doing so, get more of what we want. This helps to expand all that is…just for the fun of it.

Sometimes we get off in the weeds wanting to figure out what we knew, when we came through the birth canal. That takes a while because we come into a whole world already established & following the habits of millenia. This world has out-dated ideas for How to BE in this “Reality”.!! They train the newly born those ideas, over-riding what is Known from Non-Physical. This establishes a Conflict of Feelings & perspectives within the programmable brain of the Be-ing human, infant. Doing that creates possibilities for a lot of what we don’t want as part of our future experience, while in the natural, normal, vibrational calibration process of the new one’s experience.

That means, the relationship you have must be of your creation. You created it for the purposes I offered above, no matter how shitty that is but there’s great news in that. It means you can create ANY experience, including a different relationship. In fact, you ALREADY HAVE*. So now, your job is to synchronize with that relationship instead of the one you’re in.

So, rather than (perhaps) looking at all the bad things in your relationship, you must first come to accept the relationship you’re in, as is. This is the first key (of several) to getting what you want (a different relationship or no relationship perhaps) regardless of the nature of the desire.!!
The reason this is the first key is because everyone is constantly creating. Whenever we look at something, just looking at that thing tells the Universe “give me more of that.” So no matter if you say “I don’t want this thing I’m looking at” if you keep looking at it, it gets (re)created over and over in your experience. This is the Law of Attraction; “That which is alike unto itself, is drawn.” There is no Assertion in this Attraction based Universe. No one can force their experience into yours without some Vibrational compatibility on your part. You have a thought/vibration Active about it also & so LoA draws them together. It‘s a Co-Creative process with EVERY like thought “contributing to the flow of That energy.

When you look at someone you care about and think thoughts consistent with how you have observed them acting, you perpetuate the experience because you’re giving your attention to, looking at what you “expect” from them, (Don’t want, instead of what you Do want). The idea that NOT remembering the past makes it happen again. Where LoA takes the ideas of the past & gathers more to you. LoA gathers the LIKE vibrational/thought energies from both of you & you both Re-Create the same experience, together. If it’s a behavior or feeling you Like or Appreciate, you Want to repeat it. How do you change it from one you Don’t like to one you Like?
Since you can’t force the change in another, the Only control you have is within You. You therefore, first have to feel your way into a “space” (vibrationally) that has you not pushing against that which you don’t want. The best way to do that is find things in your current situation that you Can appreciate. Those things don’t have to have anything to do with the current What-Is(reality). I’m sure you can come up with aspects of your “right now” that you can appreciate…(Breathing, seeing, hearing, Sunshine…the list is Eternal.)

Why do you want to do this? Two reasons. One, to stop you from pushing against your current reality and thus (re)creating it into your experience and 2-, to accept where you are in terms of what you want. If you don’t first accept it, wanting to change it, thinking you’re changing it, just exacerbates the Momentum of what got you there in the first place. Make sense?

So the first thing is, you have to accept what you have. IT DOESN’T MEAN ACCEPTING A SITUATION THAT IS ABUSING AND CONTROLLING.!! It DOES mean focusing on THE aspects of your “now reality” (What-Is) that you can accept and, perhaps, even appreciate. You come into acceptance/appreciation by making up (literally MAKE. IT. UP) thoughts that have you feeling better about where you are, at This moment. Like these, for example:

I appreciate I’m not homeless on the street
I like the house I live in
I like where I live (the state or city)
I like XX who is my best friend
I like that my sister is in my life
I love my dog. More than I like my spouse!?
I appreciate my body
I appreciate what I’m reading right now
Do this as much as you can. Make lists, carry a notebook, whatever tool allows greater Ease taking note(ice) of Satisfaction.!! The goal is not getting out of the relationship. You’ve already created the reality where you’re not in the relationship you’re in. So that job is done.

But that reality can’t become your reality until you stop (re)creating the reality in which you’re still in. When you stop doing that, and come into alignment with the reality you want, you’ll find yourself there. It may be a New one, a Me time one or even the Old one ReNewed to a better Feeling understanding. Here’s the Fun part; it’s all Your choice.

How do you know when you’re in alignment with the reality you want?

Good question. The first indicator is always your emotions. Acceptance is the first emotional indicator. That’s why you must first find that vibrational place where you accept, and then appreciate that where you are.

What’s next?

The next key, once you’ve solidified a vibration wherein you’re appreciating where you are; is to begin telling better stories about the circumstance you are experiencing. This can be tricky, especially if you’ve been in the situation for a while and have a lot of negative interpretation & momentum happening. And yet, it’s the direct route into the relationship you want.

Notice I didn’t write “it’s the direct route out of the relationship you have”. If you think “I want out of this relationship” not only are you telling the Universe “Universe, give me more of this relationship!” but LoA is reacting in kind. You’re also creating a poor vibrational alignment with what you want. Abraham calls this “running from, instead of running to.” You must cultivate an inner reality where you are moving towards what you want, not running away from what you don’t want. This is very important. This is also the source of your Negative emotions & feelings. Your Inner-Being’s(I-B) interpretation of your Observance of the current What-Is is from the perspective of the Universal Consciousness of LOVE.!! Your extension of Source Energy is constantly focused on what You want. If your focus is Not of a Like energy/vibration & with the LOVE I-B has within you, you get negative emotions/feelings. This is the 1st manifestation of the new “next” & indicates whether or not You LIKE the growing momentum. If not, CHANGE what your focus to what you Want.!!
There are stories you can create about your situation that can almost immediately help you feel better about your current situation. Several of my clients have literally (I mean LITERALLY) created new versions of their spouses, jobs, neighbors…in this way. It’s not impossible, and it’s easy. You just need to be very consistent and diligent about your thoughts. This may “inspire” new Action from a perspective of LOVE toward them. (see them as you In-vision them & treat them accordingly)

Here are some suggestions, although, because I don’t know your situation, they may not apply. Still, you should be able to create versions of these that do apply:

There was a time when I loved my husband/wife/job/neighborhood/city…
I loved them because of this (spell it out) and this (spell it out), and this (spell it out)
My spouse works hard to provide for us
My spouse is good at X
My spouse really enjoys X
When my spouse does X I see her/him light up
I know my spouse really has fun when she/he does X
I like it when my spouse has fun
When they are having fun, they are fun to be around
I feel better when they are having fun
Hmmm. I feel better now, thinking bout feeling better when they’re having fun
I feel better too, when they are not around
I like it when they are not around
When they are not around, I feel more myself
Hmmm. I like feeling more myself
I want to feel more myself
I really like myself
I feel more myself now, just thinking these thoughts
Feeling more myself feels good
Hmm. This process seems to be working
Feeling more myself feels better
I like feeling better
I want to feel better more
I appreciate that I feel better now
I feel better now than I have in a while
I appreciate feeling better
hmmm, I feel appreciation about feeling better
Feeling appreciation feels better than feeling better
Wow, feeling appreciation feels nice….
Then you might have access to the following accurate statements and through them, come into greater awareness about your spouse:

My husband/wife does what he does because she/he’s in her/his own pain
He/she probably feels fear or insecurity about something, maybe something she/he’s not telling me
He/she didn’t learn ways of being other than what they’re showing me right now
They’re a product of their upbringing like everyone
There was a time he/she was loving
So I know she/he is capable of that still
Still, no one does what my spouse does unless they are not allowing the flow of Source
He/she must be disconnected and that must feel awful.
Some sobering reality…

No one experiences anything other than what they’re a vibrational match to. In other words, you’re in the relationship because you created it, along with your spouses. So you must have some semblance of what’s happening in them, in you.

That’s why you’re in the relationship you’re in & why the relationship is in the state it is in; for Good or Less than Satisfactory.!!

So now, there are some thoughts you must create which uncover what’s happening in you that has you accept that. This is straight out of Law of Attraction so I’m not giving you my opinion. No one experiences anything other than their creations here are two messages direct from Abraham emphasizing this: (Insert Daily Quote from A-H- 01/09/22 & 01/29/22)

So some thoughts that can have you come into acceptance, then appreciation with what’s going on inside you are:

Hmm. My external reality accurately reflects my internal vibration
So what I’m experiencing now is showing me something very important
I want to know what that is
So to know that, I must first accept that I’m creating it. I’m not a victim here.
I believe (or want to believe) Law of Attraction
I believe I have a Broader Perspective or an Inner Being
I want to KNOW I have a Broader Perspective
I want to see evidence of my Broader Perspective guiding me
I know the first evidence is how I feel
So I want to feel better about where I am in my own being
Perhaps I believe I don’t deserve a better relationship than this
Perhaps I believe it’s my “fault” I’m here
I want to soothe those beliefs so I can feel better
I can do that
Hope feels better than doubt
I can be hopeful that I can change my inner reality
I want to believe (If I don’t) that my inner reality shifts creates outer reality shifts
I want to see evidence of that
Universe, show me evidence that my inner reality creates my external reality
Practicing such thoughts begins soothing beliefs that got you in this relationship in the first place.

Summarizing up to now…

So the first step is accepting where you are.
Second, find things about where you are that you can feel appreciation about, or at least find better-feeling emotions from thoughts that feel good to think
Third, begin telling yourself better stories or creating thoughts that you feel better about where you are right now
Fourth, do steps one through three on your inner reality
Repeat
Next

Next start doing things you like to do. This is important, because you want to begin shifting your attention to things and activities that you feel good about. It may be tiny things, such as taking your dog on a walk, taking yourself on a walk or watching a favorite TV show. It could be spending time with a friend, or eating a pint of ice cream, or cleaning your closet…

It doesn’t matter what it is, so long as whatever it is you feel good when you do it. Again the purpose is to raise your vibration. Why?

Because the relationship you already have created from this relationship exists, vibrationaly; but you can’t get in it until you are a match to it. If you think about the relationship you want, it probably conjures from with you some of the following emotions:

Relief (but that’s not so good because you’re still thinking about the old relationship in comparison to the desired one)
Eagerness
Encouragement
Positive expectation
Enthusiasm
Excitement
Hopefulness
Love
These are all indicating you are coming more and more into being a vibrational match to this relationship waiting for you in your Vortex or vibrational Escrow acct. If you can maintain these kinds of emotions, long enough to believe them in your “mind”, the Universe MUST draw to you the relationship that matches that and your current situation MUST morph on its own. IT IS LAW.!!

But thinking about this other relationship might also conjure the following, if you’re too fixated on your current situation in a negative way:

Longing
Fear
Insecurity
Yearning
Impatience
Insecurity
If those show up, you’re NOT a vibrational match to the Wanted relationship you created. Instead you’re still a match to your existing relationship, obviously. That means your current relationship will continue as is & the “other” is gonna stick around.

So this is why, as much as you can, you want to think thoughts and do things that you feel good in thinking them and doing them. The more you do that, the more you maintain alignment with that relationship you want, be it the new or old one.

Do that and, in time, the resistance present from you (re)creating your current relationship will subside. Meanwhile, you’ll build momentum consistent with this new, wanted relationship.
Then one day, you will be out and about, minding your own business, and you’ll meet somebody…you’ll know what to say, and so will they. Next thing you know, you’ll be having coffee or a meal together.

Or, you might come home and your spouse offers a way for you two to split up in an easy, effortless way.

Or, or, or…
You must be open to the idea (the fact, actually) that the Universe and your Broader Perspective know better than your Physical Brain you, how to move you from where you are to what you want, the journey to it, will surprise and delight you, if you allow it. Focus on the Life/Experience/Feeling/relationship that you truly Want without taking “Score” of the progress of your desire coming to you. Delight in the knowledge that is inevitable if you hold no resistance about it. follow your Emotional guidance & your Intuition. They will lead you to, down & along your/the Path of Least resistance (most Allowance) & the most fun along the way. They MUST because 1) that’s what your Broader Perspective and the Universe are there for and, 2) this is exactly how they work, for each of us.-JMO

Happpy Creating!!

Vibe Commentary: 6-8

Greetings All,
My appreciation for your continued interest in my perspective of LoA. As before, the content in today’s commentary is a response to the Daily Quote & Author’s input regarding the Quotes of the wise, enlightened or philosophical from the past. These “quotes” are, for the most part; the Adages & Idioms that have helped form Societal Thinking of right & wrong.
The axioms quoted are from a Different time, with ideas that meant something different then but yet Mankind ‘s consciousness has yet to advance with the technology or the Times.

My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Interested Outlook with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO

Today’s Thought: “A ‘No’ uttered from deepest conviction is better and greater than a ‘Yes’ merely uttered to please, or what is worse, to avoid trouble.”- Mahatma Gandhi

Author’s Take: Recognizing that from our earliest years, we are taught to please others, which becomes Habit. Sacrificing honesty & integrity to get along. Still needing to please, we want others to think well of us. Too many unfelt agreements will diminish our own values.

Ending Thought: “I won’t be mean or offensive, but if I say no when I see things are wrong, who will? I’m strong enough to face the consequences if I “Rock the Boat”.”
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True enough that people say they “want” to hear the truth even though we know they (we too) may take offense & agreeing only to please or “get along” is worse.

Parents (well meaning as they are) teach the children to behave in a way that doesn’t offend anyone. This habit carries through to adulthood till we no longer are sure of what we care about & what should be important to others.

Mean & Offensive are labels placed on unwanted feelings about the opinion another has when different from ours. Rocking the Boat in need, even if it hurts.!!
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Pleasing others is something we are taught, even Forced to do as soon as we can understand language. Don’t say that, don’t do this, be polite, be quiet, keep your opinions to yourself…The list is unending. Saying or Doing the “wrong” thing might OFFEND someone, somewhere & at sometime. It’s no wonder some monks take a vow of Silence.!! Will Rogers once said, “You can please some of the people all the time, you can please all the people some of the time but you can’t please all the people all the time.!”
Being silent isn’t the answer either as some will take offense to that as well. This is an old habit, again from our earliest development of society & its Rules. These origins are not relevant or important, Now; but I think a quick synopsis for clarity might shed a new light of perspective on our rules.
Remember that rules are made by RULERS. They are constructed in a way of most benefit to the Ruler.!! Like every person wanting to feel better (or good, safe, happy, comfortable…), we want the things we want so we might Feel better in the Having of it.!! Rulers, accustomed to Power & Privilege came to recognize the limitlessness of their ability. As the “old” concepts of “respect” or Honor faded over time, New measures of respect were Instituted & INFORCED.!! Bow to Royalty, limit your language, relinquish the Self for King & the Kingdom…whatever type it may be. This brings in Loyalty, patriotism, sacrifice,..for Honor, Respect…It was/is a well crafted perpetual cycle that we continue to this day. With these new rules came new definitions of “Wrong”. Where in earlier times one could speak of foreign races as they would animals & all were in agreement, including the pious & self-proclaimed, righteous. Today those same definitions “offend” almost everyone now, along with many less descriptive words. We have come to “Judge” everything & everyone with a Negative, guarded view. If it’s not Pleasing in some way, to us; we call it Offensive or Mean…& then we claim our FEELINGS are “hurt”. Meanness & Offensiveness is subject to the interpretation of the individual. This too comes from those earlier establishment of societal rules. If in power, claim offense with the ability to 1: Set an Example (of how I expect You to act so I feel better), 2: remove a potential Threat (to feeling the way I want to feel), 3: further cement the idea into society (so I can control the future & how I want to feel then!)

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our own reality by the Thought & Emotional vibrations offered with each thought…(whether or not we realize, understand or believe it).

How does this affect our [inherent] “Desire” to please others.?? What if pleasing others makes me feel good.?? If I please others, won’t I get the same from them.??

Our “inherent” desire to please, is to please Ourselves.!! WE (everyone of us!) want to feel good all the time. We want things we think will “make” us feel better. We go on Vacations, out to dinners, Ballgames & concerts. We buy Houses, cars, clothes, gifts…ALL thinking these “things” will bring us pleasure. If we see another with the things WE want, we “take” offense, get jealous & angry. We say nothing or offer false praise instead of what we feel; to avoid “hurting their Feelings”. Then we go home & complain about how That makes us feel or we take out the Frustration on others…wanting to Feel better.
Any satisfaction we get from pleasing others is short lived & often turns to resentment. More so when we are Not reciprocated in kind(ness), some contemplate Revenge or avoidance, again thinking we will feel better by “giving them what they deserve”.!! We don’t know what others deserve anymore than They can know what WE deserve.

In this Law of Attraction based Universe, YOU are the LoA. The thoughts you think, are the beliefs you follow, are the emotions you feel(&/or suppress) “trying” to be happy.
This life is meant to be FUN.!! Having fun makes us Happy. It’s all Anyone wants, 1st & foremost.!! If everyone was as Happy as they Want to be, there would be No cause for conflicts, no “Greed”, jealousy, hatred or sadness. Thinking we need to please others, for Any reason, is based on Wanting to be thought Better of, to FEEL others think well of us, makes us FEEL BETTER.!!!!!!!!!

Let’s choose to feel better NOW. Each of us, individually on our own, without needing to think we need “others” to MAKE us happy or feel better or satisfied. This is an ATTRACTION based Universe, there is NO assertion.!! Another Can Not force anything into your experience without being a vibrational match to Your “active” vibration/thought.!! They are not responsible for your happiness or Well-Being anymore than you are responsible for theirs.!! If you are Happy, Satisfied with “where” you are in your Experience, the next desire to Happiness can come to us more easily. Taking care to intentionally FEEL the best possible in all situations will allow feeling better helping others to feel better. Understanding & accepting that everyone is in charge of their own feelings by their perception of the circumstance. Perceptions come from the beliefs held about the matter at hand. A Belief is just a Habit of Thought you continually Reinforce. It’s a Thought you Keep thinking.!!
Being hurt is a choice that, once made, grows with the LoA till the “pot boils over”.!! Being Happy/ Joyful/ Satisfied is a choice that, once made, grows with the LoA until it is infectious & those around you, follow your example.

You want to please others, do so from a perspective of “I’m Happy NOW.!!”…for (their successes, accolades, possessions…) & let your words be from the heart. If you’re true feeling is one you know won’t be appreciated, choose if you want more or less drama in your experience and comment…as you will; keeping in mind that you attract what you think & that YOU want to feel better too.!!-JMO

Happpy Creating!!