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Impressive judgements

What’s the first impression you want to give people?

Having been a Direct Sales professional for a long time, I’ve had many directives concerning influencing others toward agreement. Regarding today’s prompt, the most lasting was: “You never get a second chance to make a First Impression”. That is true enough, however; Keep in mind that influence is always directed toward Others & those impressions are based on the judgements steeped in past Beliefs, both religious and societal.

We all do it regardless of any denials of judgment. It can’t be helped. We all want to be looked at with kindness & warmth but then we judge those judging Us. We also are forming judgements & making 1st Impression assessments, then we judge ourselves in comparison to that impression. We judge because we want others to be different than they Are, to be more like Us…

So, the real question should be not what impression we want to Project but what Impressions do we Perceive of others. It has long been ondrstood that most of the faults we see in others are the those we have ourselves & we project them toward Others in order to Feel better about ourselves…This comes from the judgements we were taught to Believe.!! The beliefs we hold, whether they serve us or not; color our Impressions of the physical world we observe including ourselves. The Law of Attraction keeps the momentum of the thoughts that come from our beliefs. Remember that a Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Reinforced; a thought you Keep thinking. If you change what you believe, what you experience will also change, including your impressions; of yourself & that of others.

Happpy Creating!!

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Feeling Better or In Control.??

Greetings all,                                                                              

 This may be a new point of view to most who read this Blog. I offer a common sense understanding of how I see the Law of Attraction(LoA) as it relates to the everyday things we all experience.!! We all have “issues” that come from our Perspectives & Beliefs; from where we want to Feel “relief”. Knowing that Words don’t teach, only Life’s experiences do. It’s my desire that my Words bring clarity & inspire new ideas.!!

  My opinions are of how LoA would offer a more agreeable viewpoint to the Everyday circumstances we all experience. Remember, this is (JMO)Just My Opinion. I welcome comments or questions equally, from those interested in a different answer to the Questions of Life Paths.-(I’m open to personal, Private consultations)- Keep an Open Mind & an Outlook of Expectation, with the Appreciation of Knowing there IS a reason to BE.-JMO

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  The only reason that Anyone wants or does Anything is that they think they will Feel Better in the Having/Doing of IT.!! This includes actions & words spoken, be they accepted or denied.

  This may sound superficial or egotistical but this is Part of the feeling that comes from wanting or Desire. In many societies, Wanting or worse, Desire has been villainized or at least, made to seem a bad thing. Several religions teach to Relinquish all worldly possessions in order to be closer to their Deity or god. Give up what you have wanted, worked to attain & hold dear as possessions. As though the Physical (inanimate) items hold sway over you, controlling your Be-ing, your thoughts & your ability to reason.!!

 If you have Beliefs that are more religious than  spiritual, you’ll be glad to know that Nothing can be closer to what most call god & “spiritual”, than the physical objects that come from Creating from desire.!! The world we live in IS Physical…water, food, clothing, etc…

  However, no one can NOT want. Whenever one Sees or continues to observe, in the current What-Is(reality) that which is Not wanted, it triggers the Desire for its opposite or for a Better version. Wanting a version that pleases one or is perceived as an improvement & FEELS BETTER; not just conceptually but Emotionally**. If this seems unlikely to you, when you next Want something; like an answer to a problem you’ve focused on, ask yourself WHY you Want IT, until the final answer is only “…because it feels good.”; or I want to Feel Better.!!

  This is obvious when people Do for others, volunteer or charities; mainly due to Societal pressures of Church & community. If done under pressure, then justification is used to assuage  their feelings. Granted, a good deal of Good is done; mostly. I would think that those who engage in these Actions, do so Because it Feels Good,whether from perceived approval from others or from the assumption one’s help is actually making a difference .!! Some are expecting a return on their (time) investment, even so; some reciprocation obviously would feel good. Others have argued that wanting Any Thing does not make them feel good but is a Needed item, not for Pleasure.

  Consider this, if wanting for a specific reason is to Improve a condition or circumstance, then Not having would not make an Uncomfortable situation better. A Not Better situation won’t FEEL better either.!! Did you follow that.?? If you stub your Toe on something, it hurts. An UnWanted condition. Your immediate Desire is to rid yourself of the pain caused & to remove the offending item because both would bring about a Better Feeling condition, now & in a possible future setting…

 The (all too Human)question that comes up here is how can that be valid for someone that wants to Kill another person. This has been reviled as the most Horrific act one can conceive, the ultimate punishment & greatest threat to (the after?) Life. It has been vilified for Thousands of years & according to the Bible, since the First humans…and yet, Hundreds of MILLIONS of people have been Killed, en masse; mostly from what seems to be the 1st encounter of TWO different people.!! (if you subscribe to the A&E story…) A great many of them, in the name of the worship of a deity or belief.!!

 As society has evolved & ruling has passed from a Family or Tribal leader to what passes for Government, taking a Life has “Rules of Engagement ” making it a Crime to commit. Yet, the rule makers have Made it THE Punishment of choice for those who do. This is because, not understanding the True nature of the death experience, Humans with a Limited grasp of Life may have come to believe that retaliation somehow Appeases the dead. So now Death is regulated & controlled and executed to make society Feel Better.!! Yet, NO One approves of it.

  The “rule making” has gotten more complicated & complex, with man tolerating “Gov’t” to pass rules to Control the people. However, Laws make Criminals. No one Wants to be “controlled” in any form. We see this in Children. Not because “they don’t know better” but because they DO.!! Most “comply with the rules, motivated by the consequence of punishment but a large portion of people; worldwide, do not. Look at the number of people incarcerated for not following the Rules. This is not only MY opinion but that of many people. I offer the following quote from E-H/Abrabham, exerted from one  of many seminars;

 “It is your rules that make unlawful beings. You would get along better if you would just trust each other to treat each other appropriately, but you don’t. So you keep making laws—until you make criminals of everyone.’

Excerpted from Chicago, IL on 4/25/99

Our Love,

Esther (Abraham and Jerry)”

 So, back to committing a crime (big or small) & the Feeling good of it. From petty theft, shoplifting; to causing Human, physical Death, is done so to achieve some degree of Feeling Better. Yes, this is a hard idea to accept, especially by those who believe they Feel Better being controlled by Laws.( I entreat those, to examine their Feelings about it, more closely)  If we ask why would one Do This & review the act from a logical standpoint rather than the Societal Mores of Right & Wrong, the answer is Obvious & simple. In addition, all “Acts” are done from some perspective of Love…Hitler so LOVED his country, people & race that he reverted to the Genocide & war we are familiar with. The direction is presumed “Wrong” because of Religious & Societal concepts but the Desired outcome was borne from a Feeling of Love, belief & wanting a Better social environment for all…Misguided as we feel it was.

 We, all Living Be-ings, Extensions of Source; WANT.!! From a Blade of Grass wanting  Water, Sunlight & nourishment to Humans Wanting to BE happpy, safe & fulfilled; can not avoid Wanting. It is the Evolution of ALL species, of Life. Everything we all want is to Feel Better in some way. We do not create solely on our Own but collectively Co-Creating. This from the very existence of the Physical environment we live in, the very appearance of the Sky, Trees, Oceans, cities & people we can perceive with our 5 senses to the small intricacies we all desire in our personal lives. Ask yourself if you’d Prefer to Be right or to Feel Better & Why…

 The control we desire is Within Us All, shared among us & manifested by us to Feel Better & Better & better…by translating Vibrations through our 5 senses, to perceive the World we have Co-Created together, we Feel Better with every new manifestation.-JMO

   With LOVE-Happpy Creating!

Following..?

List the people you admire and look to for advice…

Buddha said, “Follow no leader, be your own light.”

  Advice from others, well meaning as it may be; is always to the interest of the advisor. I.E.-Anything anyone does or thinks is almost Always more about themselves than about (the global) You.!!

  In this Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our own reality, the Source Consciousness of which we are an extension of; developed our Emotions as guidance Indicators of the path to our Desires. Acknowledging advice is doubting YOU. That “gut” feeling is the tip of that Emotional Iceberg.

  By casually Asking ourselves what’s Next, not making it dire & Allowing the solution to present itself, you’ll see the Advice of others for that it is: others training you to please them.!!

As for those I’d admire, anyone who follows Their path through life with Intention.

Our most important purpose here IS to create. We can only create from desire, from Wanting. We create everything from some perspective of the only One enjoying; Love. Creation Expands the Universe, the Universal consciousness of Source & all We are.-JMO
  Happpy Creating!!

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Making Prejudice, Racism Real

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Greetings Friends,

This may be a new point of view to most who read this Blog. My desire is to offer a Common Sense understanding of, how I see; the Law of Attraction(LoA) as it relates to the everyday things we all experience.!! We all have “issues” that come from our Perspectives & Beliefs; from where we want to Feel “relief”. Knowing that Words don’t teach, only Life’s experiences do. It’s my desire that my Words bring clarity & inspire new ideas that inspire Satisfying action.!!
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Prejudice; noun: 1-unreasonable feelings, opinions, or attitudes, especially of a hostile nature, regarding an ethnic, racial, social, or religious group.
2-any preconceived opinion or feeling, either favorable or unfavorable.
These 2 definitions are from an Online dictionary. I found it interesting that the 2nd definition was the more Accurate one, in terms of the Meaning of the word. Much like murder, one Premeditated means to Plan beforehand. The same applies to prejudice, the Concept of Thinking/Feeling/Believing ANYTHING about Anything or Anyone before having a Full understanding of IT is a Prejudice.
That may all have been moot but I wanted to Clarify it because of Definition #1., for the few that may think it’s only Disliking another Race or ethnic group for Whatever reason.

That said, the concept of it started so long ago that it’s not even in the His-story books. Some may say it was with Cain & Able due to Jealousy. As the world population grew, the things many were Jealous of became the Trademark of that group & so the Jealousy grew to include the entire group. As it applied to more than a few individuals, it needed a label. The 1 born out of the Initial intent & feeling, from the Latin form-praejudicum: meaning- to Judge in Advance; became Pre-juge-ice, later shortened, I imagine to Prejudice.
As I’ve stated in previous Posts, most, if not all; of man’s basic social behavior was learned as a Survival method, from our earliest ancestors who Observed the actions of Prey/Pack animals. Wolves mostly.!! Not much has changed… except of course, that now we have a War (of sorts) against Racism & prejudice. Racism is One ethnic group(race) believing that other Races are Inferior.!! It’s been said that Only the White race can be Racists because no Other race feels as Superior toward other races as Whites.
Now it’s called Appropriate (or IN…) & has been made into Law by Legislation.[I see images of Big Brother, the Thought Police & 1984…] but then, current media is Promoting the idea of big Social/Global changes. We’re getting “made comfortable” with the idea of the end-result so that the Means getting there are easier to accept. We are being fed a Programmed Prejudice with the “victim” To Be Determined. So we accept it’s coming as Fate, inevitable or Destiny…Is the world That possible future could become, the world we Want to live in or leave to our Children..??

We learned from our early ancestors the tactical advantage of the Divide & Conquer rule, from the Ottoman empire to the Catholic church, to the Political arena today. We are Separated into Groups & categories and levels within each group to ensure our division as well as guaranteeing control of the population as a whole.!!

This is a Vibrational, Attraction based Universe where we create our Own reality with the Thoughts & Emotional vibrations we offer at every moment. The Law of Attraction (LoA) is: “That which is likened unto itself, is drawn.”, which means that Like Energies, Vibrations, Thoughts(they’re all the Same), come together by the amount of Attention it receives.
Prejudices are nothing But thought&emotion. Some reading this now are experiencing Feelings of anxiety or fear (of what others think…?), Anger & even confusion. These feelings, created by the Thoughts(energy/vibration) about the myriad of sub-themes of Prejudice are indicators of the Degree of your Acceptance of the idea. (I won’t give that any more AirTime)
If you’ll re-read the above 2 paragraphs, you may come to understand that it has Be-come a Self-Perpetuating entity born of & fed on FEAR. A fear carried over from our evolution of survival in a more hostile world. A world that No Longer EXISTS because everyone Wanted, thought of, prayed & worked for and Believed in a Better Lifestyle. One of Safety, Security & prosperity.!! WE created just That & live it today; better & better & better with each generation. The habits of Survival are hard to change because of the(momentum of the) BELIEF associated with that ability. These ideas & concepts are perpetually promoted by the ruling class.

The Law of Attraction holds the energy of the emotions we use, adding it to the thoughts we think, which emit vibrations about our beliefs.!!
Remember that a Belief is a Habit of Thought that is constantly Re-Inforced; a thought you Keep thinking. THAT is your Point of Attraction!! When thought & emotion are combined, the momentum builds toward creating the Essence of the idea, be it physical or Emotional.

Prejudice CanNot be beaten or even changed because the ATTENTION to it adds to it’s momentum already in progress. If someone says Anything to justify their Feeling/Belief/Heritage/His-Story, is making excuses for Being (thought) Right rather than wanting to Feel Good.
The past owes & Cannot repay the future anything.!! We can not change the past or make up for the events that transpired THEN. We also have No control of the future, we can only live in the Moment, Now, the present.!! Since thoughts create emotions & we have control of what we think; we have control over How we Feel.!!

We can not “Blame” circumstances that happened 2,000, 200, 50yrs or even earlier today for how (or what we think) we Feel. When we observe things we like, find interesting or fun; we feel good & think it’s because of what is becoming in the Now. If you’ve followed so far, you can understand that we Feel what we Think (about what we believe about the topic on the Moment).!! You get what you think…basically. What we SEE Now is already in the Past.

Prejudices continue to exist because of the overwhelming amount of Attention given to the concept the thinker believes about their prejudice. When most people think about the Subjects or the subject of Prejudice, it doesn’t Feel good. Even the most of prejudice people understand we all are part of a Whole, of some sort. I know of no one that finds Joy & Satisfaction expressing Prejudice.
You(we, every Living Be-ing) are an extension of Source Consciousness(some say god), the Non-Physical, Vibrational Energy of the Universe having(chosen to have) a Physical experience in this Time/Space reality as a Be-ing Human. The “Language” of the Universe is the VIBRATION of Pure LOVE.!! Your “thoughts” are vibrations & thoughts “create” Emotions which we “experience/Feel” (as good or bad). Your emotions are your indicator of how your Active thought blends, or doesn’t blend, with the thought Source Consciousness is thinking/feels about the same subject in the same moment.
The further apart you’re Tuned to the aspect of Pure LOVE, the more Negative Emotion you Feel.!! The closer in alignment you are with your Belief, the greater Joy/Satisfaction/Happiness/Love you’ll FEEL.!! & the closer you are to the Perspective of the Source Consciousness.!!

Now that you’ve read this & have a clarity of a new perspective, How does thinking about a Prejudice (the most common) Feel.?? Do you understand that the Focus upon a subject that Doesn’t feel good, is Asking for more of it in your Experience.?? IF you can say, I have a Pre-Judged perspective about EVERYTHING, you also understand that it’s because of the Belief about the In the Moment IT. By continuing to focus on IT, you BRING it into your Life.!! Consider No One an enemy & hold the Feeling of Satisfaction that comes from NOT Pushing against…

Our most important purpose here IS to create. We can only create from desire, from Wanting. We create everything from some perspective of love. Creation Expands the Universe, the Universal consciousness of Source & all We are.-JMO
Happpy Creating!!